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🎧 Why Ten Minutes Is Enough — And Why We Distrust That Idea | iServalan™ | Continuum Approach

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🎧 Why Ten Minutes Is Enough — And Why We Distrust That Idea

iServalan | The Continuum Approach

Ten minutes sounds like an insult.

After all, Chopin didn’t get to where he was on ten minutes a day.
Beethoven probably never said, “Just do ten minutes — I’ve got too many cat videos to watch on my phone.”
(You guessed it. My personal weakness.)

Ten minutes sounds like something you say when you are not serious.
When you are already preparing to fail.
When you are only pretending to be committed.

We have been taught that anything worth doing must be done for long stretches, with visible effort — and preferably with a degree of suffering.

So when someone suggests ten minutes a day, the instinctive response is mistrust.

What could possibly change in ten minutes?

The answer is: more than you think — if those ten minutes are real.

The problem is not time.

It is continuity.

Most adult learning collapses not because the learner lacks discipline, but because the imagined commitment feels unsustainable.
An hour a day becomes a burden.
A perfect routine becomes brittle.
Miss one session, and the whole structure fractures.

Ten minutes does not frighten the nervous system.

It slips in quietly.
It pretends to be non-intrusive — while all the while teaching the brain something new.

It fits into tired days.
It survives busy weeks.
It does not require negotiation with guilt or exhaustion.

You can do it while running a bath.
While boiling a kettle.
Even — dare I say it — while the kids are eating fish fingers and chips.

The washing up can wait ten minutes.

And because it is survivable, it is repeatable.

This is where the real work happens.

The body learns through repetition, not intensity.
The hands adapt through frequent contact, not heroic effort.
The ear refines itself through exposure, not explanation.

Ten minutes a day, returned to consistently, does something subtle but profound.

It teaches the body that this activity is safe.
That it will not overwhelm.
That it can be approached without bracing.

Over months, this safety accumulates.

Movements become more economical.
Attention sharpens without strain.
What once felt effortful begins to feel familiar.

And this is the part that is often misunderstood.

Improvement does not arrive as a breakthrough.

It arrives as a quiet recalibration.

Less tension.
Less hesitation.
Less internal commentary.

This is why ten minutes works — and why we resist it.

It offers no spectacle.
No dramatic transformation.
No evidence that can be displayed online.

It requires trust in a process that cannot be proven in advance.

But music has always worked this way.

Scales were never designed to be impressive.
Neither were open strings, long notes, or simple patterns.
They exist because the nervous system learns best when it is not being forced.

Ten minutes is not a shortcut.

It is an acceptance.

An agreement to return.
An agreement to keep the door open.
An agreement to let learning settle rather than be driven.

And here is the double-whammy:

Over six months, ten minutes a day becomes something substantial — not in hours, but in integration.

You get better. Properly better.

The instrument becomes a friend.
The body understands its commitment to movement and poise.
The mind stops resisting the act of beginning.

And at that point, time often expands on its own.

Not because you are pushing harder —
but because you are no longer pushing at all.

Ten minutes is enough to begin.

And beginning, done properly, carries further than most people expect.


Learning an Instrument, Taking the Leap as an Adult | iServalan | Continuum Approach

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🎧 Learning an Instrument as an Adult, Taking the Leap 

 

iServalan | The Continuum Approach

Learning an instrument as an adult is not the same act as for a child.

It requires a different kind of commitment — not louder, not grander, but quieter and more deliberate.
It begins with a decision that some part of your life is allowed to belong to you, even when you are tired.
Even when nothing is left at the end of the day.

For many adults, learning happens at night.

After work.
After caring.
After thinking for other people.

It happens when the body is already asking to be left alone — which is precisely why it matters how learning is approached.

Because the leap is rarely about time.

It is about safety.

Safety to begin badly.
Safety to sound clumsy.
Safety to exist in a learning space that does not demand proof, speed, or visible progress.

Most adults do not avoid instruments because they lack ability.
They avoid them because they have absorbed the idea that learning must look impressive to count.

Online, this belief is reinforced constantly.
Fast results. Perfect tone. Before-and-after transformations that resemble athletic display rather than education.

These are performances, not teaching.

Deep musical learning has never been dramatic.
It is slow.
It is repetitive.
It happens in small, almost unnoticeable adjustments of the hands, the ear, the breath.

Real commitment does not look heroic.

It looks like returning.

It looks like creating a space where there is no pressure to “achieve”, only permission to attend.

When that permission exists, something important happens in the body.

The instrument becomes a point of contact — something solid and responsive.
The hands have a task.
The breath finds rhythm.
Time regains shape.

This is where music becomes therapeutic, though not in the sentimental sense.

It is regulating.
It is containing.
It absorbs anxious energy without asking you to explain yourself.
It gives effort somewhere to go.

You are not trying to express an identity.
You are allowing yourself to be occupied — safely, purposefully, and without judgment.

Learning an instrument as an adult is not about talent, and it is not about catching up with an imagined past.

It is about continuity.

About offering yourself a practice that does not disappear when motivation falters.
A skill that grows through presence rather than pressure.

The leap is smaller than it appears.

It is not a leap into mastery.
It is a step into contact.

And once that contact is made, learning has somewhere to settle.

©2025 Sarnia de la Mare | The Continuum Approach 

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